PERSPEKTIF/PERSPECTIVES
apa yang korang tau pasal perspektif ? kalo secara zahirnya memang orang tgk perkara nie
what do you guys know about perspective? generally , people would look at it as a simple petty
sebagai perkara remeh temeh je.. tapi sbenarnya, bagi diri saya sendiri perspektif inilah yang
things that are unimportant... alas, for me, i think ones perspective is what gives an impression
memberi satu tanggapan dan keputusan dalam kehidupan seseorang. ape yang saya cuba
or influence in decision of someone's life. what am i trying to say in this short note ? you may ask
smpaikan dalam coretan kali ini?? well, sbenarnya saya nak ajak korang semua melihat kedalam
actually, i would like to bring all off you to learn to look at the goods in someone's perspective
kebaikan setiap perspektif manusia walaupun kita tidak menyetujui perkara yang disampaikan.
eventhough we disagree with his/her thoughts and perspective.
biar saya bagi korang satu situasi :
let me give you a situation:
situasi A/ situation A :
Korang baru jer lepas gaduh dengan kawan baik anda , dari perspektif korg kawan korg tu dah buat salah gile b**i la... korang merasakan yang tindakan dye tu da menyusahkan anda , yang bahawa tindakannya tu dah melampaui batas. maka korang pon mengambil keputusan nak menyelesaikan masalah tersebut dengan cara kasar ( tak kesah la nak sound kuang hajar ke. nak pukol ke hak3) .. tapi korg sedar tak implikasi tindakan korang tu? adakah tindakan korg tu akan menyelesaikan masalah korang atau korang hanya akan mengeruhkan keadaan? mungkin dengan cara ini korg akan kehilangan seorang kawan yang sangat bermakna dalam hidup anda. setuju???
-all right you guys just had a bad fight with a good friend of yours. from your perspective the flaws comitted by ur friend is extremely wrong.. to you, he's mistakes will just burden you and that it has just crossed it's limitations. so you decided to solve the problem the harsh way ( this includes rude confrontation and man handling ) ....but do you guys realize the circumstances that you might face if you were to carry on with the decision? will your decision be a resolution or just make things worse? maybe, if you carry on, you might lose the most meaningful friend in yourlife.. what say you?
jadi apakah cara paling mujarab nak menyelesaikan masalah sedemikian rupa?
so wat is the best resolution for this problem?
mudah sahaja...
tarik nafas... senyum dan fikir tentang kebaikan dan kebahagian yang korang penah lalui bersama.. lepas tu korg pikir la ape masalah dak nie.. mungkin tindakan salahnya itu dilakukan atas satu sebab, mungkin ada kebaikan disebalik tindakannya bukankah begitu? jadi fikir yang positif, jangan memikirkan yang rakan anda itu melakukan kesalahan dengan dasar yang negatif.
it's easy....
just take a deep breath ...... smile and think of all the kidness and happiness that you both have gone through together.. then think about your friends problem.. maybe his wrong actions were done on a certain basis or reason, maybe there is a silver lining behind his actions , perhaps ait? so think positive and do not look at his actions in the negative side.
saya tau bukan mudah untuk memafkan seseorang selepas satu kesalahan dilakukan namun ia tidak bermaksud yang setiap perbuatannya adalah satu kesalahan yang besar bukan? kadang kala kita ni lebih terdorong dengan kehendak dan nafsu. lebih kepada ketidak warasan dan sikap terburu-buru. fikir dari pihaknya.dengar cerita dari pihak kawan korg tu dan beri peluang untuk dia jelaskan diri.. belajar untuk mendengar. letakkan diri korg kat tempat dia.. jangan biarkan persahabatan yang suci itu di nodai dengan hanya kesalahan -kesalahan kecil yang tidak sepatutnya berlaku... tepuk dada tanya selera , kenali diri dan persekitaran.
i know, it is not easy to just forgive and forget after he/she has wronged u right? especially if the mistake is as big as an oak tree. but it does not mean that his actions are totally wrong. sometimes we humans tend to be urged with our inhumanity, our feelings and emotions. more to unrationality . think on his behalf. listen to his/her story and give him the chance that he deserves to explain. learn to listen . put yourselves in his/her shoe.... never let a sacred friendship bond be dismissed just because of small petty mistaked that should not be there in the first place. ask your self and know yourself..
cheers!! hahaha...
apa yang korang tau pasal perspektif ? kalo secara zahirnya memang orang tgk perkara nie
what do you guys know about perspective? generally , people would look at it as a simple petty
sebagai perkara remeh temeh je.. tapi sbenarnya, bagi diri saya sendiri perspektif inilah yang
things that are unimportant... alas, for me, i think ones perspective is what gives an impression
memberi satu tanggapan dan keputusan dalam kehidupan seseorang. ape yang saya cuba
or influence in decision of someone's life. what am i trying to say in this short note ? you may ask
smpaikan dalam coretan kali ini?? well, sbenarnya saya nak ajak korang semua melihat kedalam
actually, i would like to bring all off you to learn to look at the goods in someone's perspective
kebaikan setiap perspektif manusia walaupun kita tidak menyetujui perkara yang disampaikan.
eventhough we disagree with his/her thoughts and perspective.
biar saya bagi korang satu situasi :
let me give you a situation:
situasi A/ situation A :
Korang baru jer lepas gaduh dengan kawan baik anda , dari perspektif korg kawan korg tu dah buat salah gile b**i la... korang merasakan yang tindakan dye tu da menyusahkan anda , yang bahawa tindakannya tu dah melampaui batas. maka korang pon mengambil keputusan nak menyelesaikan masalah tersebut dengan cara kasar ( tak kesah la nak sound kuang hajar ke. nak pukol ke hak3) .. tapi korg sedar tak implikasi tindakan korang tu? adakah tindakan korg tu akan menyelesaikan masalah korang atau korang hanya akan mengeruhkan keadaan? mungkin dengan cara ini korg akan kehilangan seorang kawan yang sangat bermakna dalam hidup anda. setuju???
-all right you guys just had a bad fight with a good friend of yours. from your perspective the flaws comitted by ur friend is extremely wrong.. to you, he's mistakes will just burden you and that it has just crossed it's limitations. so you decided to solve the problem the harsh way ( this includes rude confrontation and man handling ) ....but do you guys realize the circumstances that you might face if you were to carry on with the decision? will your decision be a resolution or just make things worse? maybe, if you carry on, you might lose the most meaningful friend in yourlife.. what say you?
jadi apakah cara paling mujarab nak menyelesaikan masalah sedemikian rupa?
so wat is the best resolution for this problem?
mudah sahaja...
tarik nafas... senyum dan fikir tentang kebaikan dan kebahagian yang korang penah lalui bersama.. lepas tu korg pikir la ape masalah dak nie.. mungkin tindakan salahnya itu dilakukan atas satu sebab, mungkin ada kebaikan disebalik tindakannya bukankah begitu? jadi fikir yang positif, jangan memikirkan yang rakan anda itu melakukan kesalahan dengan dasar yang negatif.
it's easy....
just take a deep breath ...... smile and think of all the kidness and happiness that you both have gone through together.. then think about your friends problem.. maybe his wrong actions were done on a certain basis or reason, maybe there is a silver lining behind his actions , perhaps ait? so think positive and do not look at his actions in the negative side.
saya tau bukan mudah untuk memafkan seseorang selepas satu kesalahan dilakukan namun ia tidak bermaksud yang setiap perbuatannya adalah satu kesalahan yang besar bukan? kadang kala kita ni lebih terdorong dengan kehendak dan nafsu. lebih kepada ketidak warasan dan sikap terburu-buru. fikir dari pihaknya.dengar cerita dari pihak kawan korg tu dan beri peluang untuk dia jelaskan diri.. belajar untuk mendengar. letakkan diri korg kat tempat dia.. jangan biarkan persahabatan yang suci itu di nodai dengan hanya kesalahan -kesalahan kecil yang tidak sepatutnya berlaku... tepuk dada tanya selera , kenali diri dan persekitaran.
i know, it is not easy to just forgive and forget after he/she has wronged u right? especially if the mistake is as big as an oak tree. but it does not mean that his actions are totally wrong. sometimes we humans tend to be urged with our inhumanity, our feelings and emotions. more to unrationality . think on his behalf. listen to his/her story and give him the chance that he deserves to explain. learn to listen . put yourselves in his/her shoe.... never let a sacred friendship bond be dismissed just because of small petty mistaked that should not be there in the first place. ask your self and know yourself..
cheers!! hahaha...
till we meet again.. [-_-]
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